My 9 year old ds has ASD, anxiety possible dyslexia. Under Camhs, OT and others. Always had issues with sensory problems. Attendance has got so bad this school year esbas are involved. He hasn't been to school at all since half term, didn't leave the house at all in half term. Says his clothes irritate him. He goes actually crazy when putting clothes on. Pulling and shouting and throwing them about. Will sit in his pjs. I have ds2 at primary who needs to go to school and actually wants to. School are ok ish and have on occasion picked up ds2 in the mornings as we live just across to school. Some times I manage to get someone to take ds2. Today however he wouldn't put on clothes, said they irritate him (this is after me ordering over £1000) worth of different pants and trousers over half term. Today I was late picking up ds/ as he trashed his room, shouting and swearing at me. Like its my fault. I'm then stressed a I need to get ds2 from school. I can't leave him at home so I had to take him in the car, he laid under a bunch of blankets. I did not feel comfortable with this situation at all because he is so unpredictable. Iv had him come at me with kitchen knifes which are now gone as I can't run the risk. He turns into a devil on the rampage. I have to move ds2 and leave ds2 to rage and destroy whatever room he is in until he's calm. Then later he's like it didn't happen. Completely opposite. Iv cried at he isn't bothered. One minute he's fine with ds2 other times he will through stuff at him just for him looking at him. I can't carry on like this anymore.
I'm not sleeping and I'm so stressed. I don't like my own son. I feel like a prisoner in my own home. OT have helped to a degree in that she is willing but hasn't helped. Camhs are a waste of space and are supposedly seeing him again after Easter. He suffers severe anxiety but I feel like he's just playing me. One minute crying saying he hates school and can't cope with it, he next day says there is no problem. I just don't know what to do. I have no help in RL as dh is at work whilst all this is happening.
Can anyone make any suggestions for me? I feel like I want to walk out of the house right now. I obviously wouldn't do that but it's how I feel like he will be fine when dh gets home. Then it will kick off again at some point. It's the constant up and then down I can't cope with. It's not consistent and u don't know how to deal with it anymore. I'm crying whilst I type
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Purplerainbow2 · 29/02/2016 15:38
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