bit of background ds 9 as aspergers dx two years ago dd 4 as lots of medical issues since birth seizures, abnormal movements , gastric feeding tube due to fail to thrive and severe reflux and undergoing a funuplication operation to stop it acid coming up, yes she still in nappies don't eat very much by mouth , still as episodes where she stops breathing and as drop attacks. she does walk in her own way very happy child mixers with every one at all ages, since birth been under lots of peads due to all her problems and never really found out why she is like this and we have ss for respite since she was 8 months old, anyway today our ss came to our house to sort out some things and she told us her new school as phoned them and reported us for giving chloe wrong bread( long story) and then went on to say don't you think the parents might have Münchausen syndrome [shocked] and its funny how there son just got dx with AS again [shocked] and our ss was to very shocked and turned round and told the teacher i have worked with this family since dd was 8 m old and have seen what they go through, now we are very upset over this and can not do anything till they back at school next week, but me and dh have said how can we keep her her there now i have lost all trust in them, we didnt send her to same school as ds due to how rubbish they been about his AS and sent dd to same school our child minder picks her children up from so this would help us out when i pick up ds from is school at same time .
anyway the thing is how do i go about this do i make app to see the head show her proof of her illness tell her why we moving her? or do i phone rounds school she if they have placers and even try ds school, trouble is she as a full statement and where she goes the community nurses have to go in and train 3 staff to feed her. i feel so mixed up tbh it as really sending me over the edge, if we don't have enough on our plate! dh as taken it really badly he totally trusted them wont or should i say cart talk about it. where do who do i turn to please advice me
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help needed please moving schools re what we found out today! upset
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trace2 · 25/10/2011 18:43
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