HI everyone,
Thought I'd post the story of our little dd giving up the dummy, in case it helps others out there contemplating going 'cold turkey!'
We've had real sleep problems for some months. A previously good sleeper who had a dummy only in her cot was waking several times in the night and sometimes taking 2 hours to settle. We tried all the usual suspects (is she hungry, so moved tea time, is she cold, is she hot, new bedding, calpol!!)
Anyway, this week on picking up from nursery, they told me she took her dummy out and gave it to them before naptime. So dh and I decided to capitalise on this and when she got home, we asked her if she would give up her dummies and send them to the little babies who need them in exchange for a nice present in the morning. Not quite sure she knew what she was agreeing to but she said yes. At bedtime, the impact of the decision kicked in and although upset, she only asked twice. The main difference was she took about 25 mins to settle and cried throughout, but once asleep, she stayed asleep. That was 5 days ago, since then we've had tears at bedtime (she asks for teh dummy but only once and we explain the dummies have all gone away!) but she settles back in the night without our help.
So the short story is - go for it! Be consistent, try and make it their idea and don't be afraid. I am so glad we did it!
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Giving up the dummy at 22 mths - our story
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ljhooray · 19/12/2008 14:41
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