Ds is ten months. Terrible sleeper, wakes every ten minutes some nights. We co sleep as this is the only way we have found that gets us any sleep at all.
For naps and before we go up to bed we build a wall of stuff round him. That's no longer safe - today I just managed to catch him climbing over it.
So he has to go in the cot. How?? If I put him in the cot, he looks confused, then starts with the "mama! Mum!" Then progresses to desolate wailing through to hysteria
We have tried:
pupd (utterly useless)
Shush pat ( also utterly useless)
Transferring asleep (very hard, he never seems to be in a deep sleep and always wakes)
Transferring sleepy (wakes, screams)
The above but with hand holding, patting, hand on tummy etc.
Controlled crying (a hellish week of constant screaming. He didn't calm down when we went back in and was throwing himself at the bars and scratching himself until he bled.)
None have worked. On the rare occasion he gets transferred and goes to sleep, he's awake the first time he moves and hits the side of the cot (he does acrobatics in his sleep.) that's usually about twenty minutes after he fell asleep and he will never, ever go back in the cot.
Please, please, please, tell me how you got your kids in their cots before I die of sleep deprivation. I am severely depressed and pretty much broken. I will try anything short of cry it out.
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How can I get him to sleep in the cot?
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Fomalhaut · 13/08/2016 14:55
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