Bit tongue-in-cheek but a significant grain of truth.
Wherever my kids have been in classes (whether at primary or secondary), the kids of teachers always seem to do unusually well. Of course, some kids will be naturally super bright but statistically you'd assume their IQ/potential to be spread (bell curve and all that) plus, anecdotally (though I've known lots) most, anecdotally, do not appear more sparky or intelligent than their peers. But perhaps they work harder as they all seem to excel, particularly in terms of home work tasks but also when it comes to certain exams.
What is the reason for this? Is it because the teacher parents (or grandparents/relatives, for that matter), know how to teach or is it because they are able to find out about upcoming tests/similar tests or because they know the ins and outs of what is required to achieve certain grades (in line with the curriculum). Or both?
Would love to hear your views/comments.
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thepogues · 27/06/2022 12:19
thepogues · 27/06/2022 18:24
True but most of the parents I know are all educated, including many with post-docs. In fact, many more 'educated' than some of the teachers I know. And they all value education, reading etc etc. I think knowing what is expected for grades and being able to help in primary is key; especially as there is so much that rides on how the kids do in primary for their confidence/setting and future school choices.
grapehyacinthisactuallyblue · 27/06/2022 17:39
I think one thing that stands out for me is that they value the education. Also know how to help if their dc is struggling. Also like PP said, statistically, if you have educated mother, you do well, so mother with degree may do better.
ThirtyThreeTrees · 27/06/2022 20:42
As a daughter of a teacher, your post sickens me.
I'm academically bright but ever time I did well in school,I was told by other children that I must have been told the answers before the test etc.
In my case, my parent was so focused on fairness that I often had it tougher, wasn't give the extra help or support that other kids got. Never give the best role in a play,never captain of the sports team etc. even though I should have been on merit on many occasions.
To see this attitude from children is understandable as they know no better. To see it from an ill informed adult is grating.
Just out of interest, what to do you? What favours does it do your children? What advantages do they have as a result? Or does it have any impact at all?
manysummersago · 27/06/2022 18:09
I remember - you have twin toddlers? I salute you.
RosesAndHellebores · 27/06/2022 22:05
I can't think of a single mother except me who didn't go to university. DS went to Oxford; DD to Cambridge. DS has just submitted his PhD. MIL was a teacher but only one of her DC went to Oxford.
My DC both started school reading. You don't have to be a teacher or university graduate to read to your children, teach them phonics, colours, flower names, trees, to recognise birdsong, listen to music, go to museums, build sandcastles, hunt for pebbles, have bear hunts and play sardines.
I do expect a teacher to prepare all children for exams in accordance with the curriculum. We paid.for our children to be well educated as well as well qualified.
butwait · 28/06/2022 08:23
@RosesAndHellebores my 'not linear' was aimed at @Haudyourwheesht not you. You sound like a perfect example of the fact that 'success' isn't linear. In my case, I wouldn't be at all surprised if at least one of my children ended up teaching. I would count that as a 'success' if it's what they want to do and makes them happy. Other people would look at income level and say that teaching would not be a 'successful' outcome given the child's current academic success. So much depends on definitions.
DuesToTheDirt · 28/06/2022 17:35
it's more likely they are being brought up in an environment where education is valued and prioritised.
Hell yes. My parents were both teachers and when I read threads here of people wanting to take holidays in term time, or take a sunny day off school to go to the beach, or just give them a duvet day.... . OK so my parents couldn't have taken me anywhere on a school day as they were at work, but I could have stayed off school sick etc. (there was another family member at home). I didn't though. I don't remember ever staying home sick - I'd have had to be nearly dead first.
hullabaloo22 · 28/06/2022 18:55
My parents were not teachers and I don't remember being home unless I had an extremely high fever (which I never seemed to have). ;)
I think education is valued and kids encouraged to behave and be respectful to teachers in many homes...
DuesToTheDirt · 28/06/2022 17:35
it's more likely they are being brought up in an environment where education is valued and prioritised.
Hell yes. My parents were both teachers and when I read threads here of people wanting to take holidays in term time, or take a sunny day off school to go to the beach, or just give them a duvet day.... . OK so my parents couldn't have taken me anywhere on a school day as they were at work, but I could have stayed off school sick etc. (there was another family member at home). I didn't though. I don't remember ever staying home sick - I'd have had to be nearly dead first.
Hoppinggreen · 27/06/2022 15:00
They also have parents who work very long hours for less pay that other people who work similar hours.
They also have parents that probably cant attend any school events during school hours and may not be able to do regular drop offs and pick ups.
So its not all good
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turquoise1988 · 30/06/2022 10:26
@Pullandpush Seeing as you've just felt the need to post about how 'able' your children are and about how you provide them with extra work at home, I'm struggling to see how your attitude is much different?
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