DS1 started the local grammar school in September.
He wasn't heavily tutored, although he did have one for half an hour a week in year 5 (with no extra homework). It shouldn't be relevant but I feel it is.
He is very bright, very capable but not very motivated. We worried about sending him more due to attitude than anything else but decided that the structure and expectations might make a difference.
His half term report was OK - not struggling with the work but organisation and effort need improvement.
However this weekend he's been miserable. He forgot he needed to read a book, he got a detention last week for forgetting his homework again (although he had done it).
He says he feels like he is letting himself down.
Is this normal? We are trying to be as supportive as we can and help him with organisation etc but I worry that we are expecting too much, and he would have been happier bobbling along at the other school.
I think I'm hoping you will come along and say everyone feels like this in their first term.
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catweasel44 · 27/11/2017 09:23
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