I'm after a bit of advice really. My son is in a state boys school in London. When we went to the open day last year we were really impressed. He started in September and made some good friends. He's doing ok academically but it's only year 7 so ok with that. The problem is there are a group of boys who are continually picking on him. There have been several incidents where he has been reduced to tears in class. My son is a child who wears his heart on his sleeve. I think they've figured that out. All his best mates are in different tutor groups. He recently confided in me that he thinks he's gay. I've got him to write down exactly what happens on these occasions and WARNING there's a few bad swear words.
I've got a good dialogue going with head of pastoral but bear in mind that this has been happening on and off for the past 6 months, not much has been happening. TBH I want to scoop him up out of that school and run away. But I know this is not how I should deal with things.
If anyone has any advice/thoughts on this I'd really appreciate it. I'm starting to feel so worn down by it, and so is he.
Below is the text. Thanks in advance
“They started to shove me and one of them punched me in the chest. They started insulting me and my family. They were using foul words, and one of them was a very abusive word (Oliver couldn’t tell me what this was) and it upset me a lot. Then they started throwing my stuff around, first my water bottle, then my books and pencils. They played football with my bottle. The called me faggot and cunt."
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Stuffragette · 09/05/2017 08:17
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