hi there! it was only last year i finished my schooling from Parmiters (I am not a mother! i just stumbled across this post!)
Parmiters is a school for gifted and talented, special and educational needs, disadvantaged children and more importantly ANYBODY!
The exam criteria may be high to get into the school but they have the best teachers in the county! some of the best facilities i have seen in whati have been in 3 Senior/Grammar schools!
They are all friendly and do not tolerate bullying.
Will help your children with any academic needs (as much as they can anyway!)
Run lots of extra curricular classes and catch up classes during lunchtimes and after school.. the detention system is very strict.
The detention system is strict but useful! certainly makes you regret not handing in your homework!
i was far from being the "brightest" kid in that school.. of which i do miss very much! but i passed the exams that i needed to in my GCSEs and have since gone on to start up my own IT company.
A very good school for all people! (even if you need to hire a tutor to get them throught the initial exam.. imo it would be money well spent!) ;)