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R4's PM and Newcastle DV case (well, alleged murder)

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Unlikelyamazonian · 05/07/2010 18:01

Posted this in chat too.
Am I the only one who thinks it is totally bloody shocking beyond belief that R4's PM (presented by eddie 'cocktail' twonk) have not discussed AT ALL the fact that the police were warned this man may try to kill his partner??

sdhocked that there was no discussion of why the police did nothing about this (otherwise it would have been reported - the police would have made sure of that) #that there was no discussion of the statistics for these kind of cases,

that they actually ran a clip from a neighbour who told the reporter that the killer clearly seemed nice, ok and to love his partner / baby?

I mean for fucks fucks sake, what era are we living in?? who the fuck was editing this steaming heap of sloppy shit?

The interview ended up by talking about how hard it is to track recently released prisoners and about government cuts

Jesus christ. The editor should be shot and if anyone female is working on that show presumably they are going home to a nice meal out with their non-violent partner at some poncy islington nosherie.

jurassic

jurassic

jurassic

but, sadly, bloody typical

Shit news editing. shit coverage.

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GypsyMoth · 06/07/2010 09:12

maranths....UA was trolling on the threads last night,not quite sound of mind

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marantha · 06/07/2010 09:06

I'm NOT saying that injunctions have no place-I think they may work on a person who is "mildly" abusive but not on a complete psycho who is intent on killing.
(I'd be interested to know what percentage of abusers kill, I guess it's a small percentage).
Just WHY this statement upsets OP so much, I don't know.

Perhaps you are scared, OP? I am sorry if you are but you know this is a forum and people may respond with things you don't wish to hear, so keep off them for a while- or steer clear of domestic violence threads for now.

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marantha · 06/07/2010 08:28

Unlikelyamazonian, so you HONESTLY think that a man who is intent on killing a partner will be put off by an injuction? I. Don't. Think. So.

You think because I can see the flaws in the "Lock up all up argument" I agree with what has happened here?! If you do, you're not thinking straight.

Can't you see that unless the flaws of any "Lock 'em up argument" are exposed things won't change?

You're thinking with your gut not your head.
Perhaps you've reason to be like this but you're not being rational.

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thatbuzzingnoise · 06/07/2010 04:01

Early on on local TV it mentioned that parole services were not involved because his sentence was shorter than a year.

Isn't it standard practice for prisoners to serve only half their sentences for some crimes?

the steriod use (allegedly) will play a big role in split personality behaviour and feed into the DV.

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Unlikelyamazonian · 05/07/2010 23:35

perhaps maranthais martha

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GypsyMoth · 05/07/2010 23:08

the only thing which could have been done would be to give her a new identity...and move her away...costs loads and she would need to agree.

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Unlikelyamazonian · 05/07/2010 23:01

Hey marantha - just re-read this part of your earlier post...
"For it is deeply inappropriate of you.. "

Are you Noah?

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Unlikelyamazonian · 05/07/2010 22:54

...which means that all our serious advice (but now obviously feckin sadly misguided) to women in dangerous DV situations here on MN to ring the DV unit or call the local police, amount to jack shit.

Even if dismantlethesun was lying she would be a good example of how she could be scared one day and dead the next.

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HerBeatitude · 05/07/2010 22:51

On the other thread it says that he still had 2 months of his sentence to serve, but they let him out early.

So they allow violent criminals who are making murder threats, to leave prison before they have served their sentence and have obviously not reformed their characters or their attitudes.

Great. What a success story for the prison service.

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mathanxiety · 05/07/2010 22:49

Not only do they fail to convict abusers of DV, they fall over themselves giving these men visitation with their unfortunate children, an arrangement that means the women are left constantly aware of their unwanted presence in their lives, and are often forced to have completely unwanted contact with them as a result of dealings regarding the children.

I agree, HerBeatitude. A threat made in the context of DV issues should be treated as an arrestable offence. The only way to tackle the epidemic of DV and spousal abuse is to tackle it in all its forms, including verbal threats.

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Unlikelyamazonian · 05/07/2010 22:48

quote from bbc news:
"Police were told suspected gunman Raoul Moat had threatened to seriously harm his former girlfriend the day before she was shot and her boyfriend killed."

yep. fuck all they could have done.

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Unlikelyamazonian · 05/07/2010 22:45

*marantha' - 'a mere injunction'

quite right bruvver...they are frookin useless aren't they. might as well slay the bitch. nothing the law can do and it aint nobody's fault.

tuck tuck.

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HerBeatitude · 05/07/2010 21:00

But that's the point - we should be able to lock people up for making threats in certain circumstances. We lock terrorists up for threateing murder.

DV abusers don't make idle threats, they make real ones. They are at least as dangerous as terrorists and more women die each year at the hands of their partners or ex partners, than are killed by terrorists.

Perhaps probation weren't involved because he'd served his sentence? I thought probation was only used when you're released early and can be sent back to prison if you misbehave?

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edam · 05/07/2010 20:59

Of course the police can't lock up everyone who makes a threat, but the justice system repeatedly fails to protect victims of domestic violence. Even here, where the man was a convicted violent criminal. How many women die every week at the hands of their partners? Is it two? Yet we have the family courts forcing women and children into contact with violent dangerous men, we have police services again and again failing to protect women who end up dead and children who end up dead or orphaned... and SS who often berate women suffering domestic violence, instead of dealing with the offender.

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GypsyMoth · 05/07/2010 20:52

people make idle threats all the time....you cant lock someone up for it.

but i still wonder where probation service was in this. there is usually some involvement upon release,or is this an example of 'cutbacks'

when i was in the police,many moons ago,we had a paedophile on patch. he's groomed kids,gone on to more serious stuff. he seved a short prison term and was bailed to his mothers address,on my beat. we were told we could do NOTHING but watch him. no approaching no nothing. just had to treat him same as anyone. then one day i got a callout with my sergeant.....it was to the scene of a murdered child (east finchley,1992 if anyone remembers) an 8 year old boy. we all knew he's go ont o reoffend. in fact i think there is research to back this up.....but we had NO powers to stop this. imagine how that felt. i remember looking at the murder scene waiting for cid to turn up. in fact i think about it everyday still

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marantha · 05/07/2010 20:52

celticfairy101 To be honest- and I stress this is my opinion only- I think the reaction would be a roll of the eyes and a muttering of, "Yeah, sure she'll kill him".
If they don't take a man seriously, they surely won't take a woman seriously.

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HerBeatitude · 05/07/2010 20:48

To be fair, I think it is more or less a national manhunt.

They're scared he'll shoot another police officer.

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celticfairy101 · 05/07/2010 20:45

Well I would say this. If a woman said that on release she was going to kill her husband do you think for one minute they would let her walk the streets?

If the policeman had died then this would be a national manhunt.

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HerBeatitude · 05/07/2010 20:45

Currently as Tiffany's post illustrates, their powers are limited.

But you keep expressing concern about locking people up for what they might do. This man had already done something. He had threatened to commit murder, and threatening to do that, is a criminal offence in itself.

Reasonable people don't seriously threaten to kill other people. It is not unreasonable then, to treat such a threat with some seriousness, particularly if the person making the threat belongs to a group which has a higher likelihood of carrying out their threats (ie has served a prison term for a violent assault and has a history of DV).

But it isn't just a problem for the police, it is also a failure of the prison service. There has obviously not been one iota of rehabilitation with this bloke.

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marantha · 05/07/2010 20:28

OK, HerBeatitude Even if police take threat seriously, what options are open to them?

Can they really lock people up, for example, on account of what they might do? (I gotta say this does not sit easy with me)
Could they warn partner that they are in danger (but then partner would now that anyway if partner was abusive)?
Injuctions? But if a man is intent on killing his partner he's not going to be put off by a mere injuction, is he?

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HerBeatitude · 05/07/2010 20:21

But Marantha, a controlling abuser who says he is going to kill his gf or ex, often does mean it. As someone else on this thread said, if the police, SS etc., knew the basics of how abusers behave, they would know that this is a threat to be taken seriously.

A threat made by an abuser who is so dangerous that he has had to serve time in prison, isn't the same as a threat made by any old random. And the police should know that. It's not their fault, individually, that they don't, but it is most certainly the fault of their culture and training. They should be aware of these issues because it is a matter of public safety - 2 women a week are murdered by their current or ex partners in the UK and that is in part because the authorities who ought to be protecting them, simply are not listening to the experts who know how these abusers behave and integrating that knowledge into their training and work practices.

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GypsyMoth · 05/07/2010 20:21

police powers are limited.....surely you all know that?? many a threat is made...what should they have done? locked him up indefinitely? for what....a threat

i have been through this personally....my ex threatened both me and my dc.....NOTHING could be done as we had recently split due to dv. he has been in and out of prison since for violence and gun crime....he has severe mental health issues. he has had 3 girlfriends since me he has beaten blck and blue,culminating in ss removing the last girls kids from her...NOTHING can be done

however,on this man in newcastles release...should probation have been involved?

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HerBeatitude · 05/07/2010 20:15

I bet she told him she was seeing a policeman because she thought it would keep him away from her. I have a friend who is a policewoman and she says it really sorts out dodgy types - she is extremely beautiful and glamorous, but some men just run a mile when they find out her occupation.

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marantha · 05/07/2010 20:13

Thanks for answering, HerBeatitude.

I'm not heartless, but I think the tendency to blame the police in these situations is not good because:
It is unrealistic that EVERY crime can be prevented by the police. I don't want to live in a country where people can be locked up on account of what they MIGHT do or what they say they might do- let's face it, only a childlike mind can't recognise that what people say they're going to do and actually do are not always the same. In my experience, they're rarely the same. Most people for at least some of the time bulls**t.
It detracts from the real "bad guys" i.e. the perpetrator of the crime/s!
But, hey, that's my point of view and others are free to disagree.

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celticfairy101 · 05/07/2010 20:13

Sorry not OP but HerBeatitude.

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