have chnged my name for this one, but am a regular. For 18 months now I have been in regular text and email contact with an old, and very fanciable, ex colleague of mine. We exchange 10-20 mails/txt per week and talk about general stuff, sometimes with a little innuendo thrown in! I do sometimes bump into him at the gym and we just exchange hello and how are you. Today, I had a meeting where he works(Total coincidence - its a big place) and we met for a short lunch afterwards. This was in his staff canteen so there was nothing sneaky about it. We chatted and laughed cos we do get on very well. Then off I went and so did he, after a chaste peck on the cheek.
Now I am left feeling very frustrated and confused as to what he wants from me. We get on very well and the chemistry is there, but neither off us gave any sort of signal to the other today.
I would also add that we are both very happily married, but is it so very wrong to get an ego boost about being fancied by someone else? If indeed, he still feels that way about me (if he doesn't, why does he continue the texts)
I know there was an attraction 3 yrs ago as we both got drunk at a ball and ended up in a bedroom together - but I stopped it after just kissing him. I know this might seem very self indulgent but I just dunno what to do. Should the contact continue, or should I just ask him why we have any contact at all? Thanks for reading this.
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What to do - is this wrong? Help please
wrongORright · 09/08/2005 17:11
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