Hi All, I am desperately in need of some advice. My DD was born in May last year and although I have lost a lot of weight since then, I still hate the way I look. My DH is very supportive of me, never comments on my body (except to tell me I look nice), and never nags me into making love.
The problem is that because of the way I feel, our sex life has gone down the pan. DH knows how I feel and never makes any moves on me as I have often said no in the past. I then start to nag him about not fancying me now I'm fat from having a baby. Deep down I know it's my problem not his. But what can I do about it? I love DH with all my heart and I want to be able to relax enough to make love, but I just don't feel sexy and am constantly thinking that he must look at me and think I'm disgusting.
Has anyone else gone through this? Or does anyone have any advice about how I can overcome this problem? Sorry for rambling on - just don't have anyone I can talk to about this.
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Feeling Sexy when you hate your body
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PandaBear · 28/02/2003 09:17
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