Our daughter’s partner convinced her to moved out. It’s a year since she has talked to us.
Im finding it increasingly difficult to cope. I’m trying to focus on my own stuff but I’m finding more and more I just can’t seem to get anything done.
DH is also struggling and although we are trying not to let it affect our marriage, it is.
friends say,‘she’d have moved out anyway’ then post pictures of their child’s birthdays. No one gets it. It’s like she’s died but we can’t grieve, we just keep hoping.
what can I do?
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Dontknowhowtodo · 17/04/2024 06:38
IAmThe1AndOnly · 17/04/2024 07:00
What’s your daughter’s version?
Loubelle70 · 17/04/2024 07:04
My daughter did this, usually when she couldn't get her own way or when i adhered to my boundaries. She was spoiled to my own detriment. However, her ex husband was the catalyst...once they divorced she was back. I wrote her a heartfelt letter and left her with it. Thats all you can do.
Dontknowhowtodo · 17/04/2024 07:10
Thank you. No, she’s cut off her old friends.
i think she may be being manipulated but may not realise.
I know sort of, what she thinks, but have had no chance to discuss.
mindthespace · 17/04/2024 07:06
You can quite clearly read the OP distress in her message. What kind of person can't show some empathy at the start.
IAmThe1AndOnly · 17/04/2024 07:00
What’s your daughter’s version?
Yirk · 17/04/2024 07:26
May I suggest if you know where your daughter is living / working that you visit to check she is ok.
It's harder to ignore someone face to face and hopefully you and your partner will be able to have a conversation with her. Good Luck.
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Dontknowhowtodo · 17/04/2024 08:57
Hi yirk Yes, I have considered it many times. I’ve even walked past there.
We’ve been advised not to - apparently they can call the police and we will be in trouble. If she is in a
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