Sorry, this is probably something that has been discussed before by someone else but I don’t really know who to talk to about this.
DH has a higher need for sex than I do. I guess it’s always been a bit like that but it feels like it’s getting worse. I am not ruling out that maybe I am the one causing the problem but there are times when I feel so “pressured” because I am worried about hurting him. He is a good husband and father and I love him to bits but I feel like I am frequently rejecting him even though we have sex twice a week.
We had a fight about it this morning before he had to leave for a work trip and I have been feeling guilty and anxious since because I haven’t heard a word
from him since he left 😔
I really don’t want to lose or hurt him, but I feel like his drive has increased over the last year and it’s causing issues. I’m embarrassed because I sometimes feel angry and resentful, and then so
guilty afterwards. And now I’m wondering if he’ll look for someone else while he is away even though I know that this is a stupid and intrusive thought.