I'm sat here in tears because quite frankly i've had enough of the arrogant arsehole called my husband but soon to be ex. He left my daughter and I nearly 4 months ago, I've done the begging pleading to the point where I was harrassing him to letting him get on with it then coming and going as he pleased including sleeping with me, he has bullied me threatened me with his solicitor the police and social services (for taking my dd out after 7pm to go see him?!?!) he said that I nagged him for 1hr which was infact me trying to persuade him to come home not just for us but for dd, he has said that he slept with me just so he could feel normal again?!?!? eh.
We were doing relate so we could try to communicate for dd sake but even that has not worked, dd was ill and i took her to the out of hours clinic at the hospital, he asked if he should go and then said well if i don't you will say I don't care!?!?! he has stayed over for over 3 nights this week (yes we slept together, so he could feel normal?!?) he is so cold and callous and has even changed towards dd telling her that if she didn't behave daddy wouldn't stay (who the feck says that to a 2.5yr old)
I have bent over backwards for him and now enough is enough, he usually has her one day at the weekend well i've told him to stay away till he has gone through his solicitor anything he has to say can now be done through his solicitor, this is what he wanted and so this is what he is getting (he has seen her alot this week btw) but now i have to think of us both and try to start building our life without him, yes he can see her but i've let him call all the shots but not anymore, so sorry for the rant but I've let the bastard walk all over me, its life invasion of the body snatchers, someone has taken away a doting father and great dh and replaced him with a shit
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time to involve solicitors (sorry to rant)
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TLV · 26/01/2008 21:06
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