Just that, really.
He’s great practically - cooks, cleans etc.
But he loves his job and organising a day out, especially daytime, or a holiday etc is very hard work. He isn’t bothered about time off, never really throws caution to the wind with a random mini break. I can’t seem to get him to relax that much…impromptu bbq would be a no, and so on. All this was fine when just us as I have lots of friends and I’m busy and me and DP get on very well. But I feel I will want us to focus more on quality time together now.
Ive been told confidently by others that men change with kids. I’m not so sure.
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Did your DP change for the better with the baby?
WhatTimeDan · 25/05/2022 15:05
WallaceinAnderland · 25/05/2022 15:45
No, he was a responsible adult before we agreed to have a baby and continued to be one after baby was born.
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