I think my marriage has just ended

[FlopsyDoodle]

I don’t really know how I feel. I’ve been resentful and angry with him for so long. I just want him gone. His bloody parents are coming to stay tomorrow so that will be fun.

[endofthelinefinally]

I hope you are ok, OP.
I am just checking back to see if you are any further forward with a diagnosis and treatment.
I hope your PL are stepping up and taking good care of your DC.

[Namechanged67]

Your Mum sounds wonderful. Hope you get well soon. Hope the in-laws realise what a piece of shit their son is!

[Gingernaut]

@FlopsyDoodle, good luck with your colonoscopy.

I had one for rectal bleeding and ended up sharting for days.

Take the Picolax.

In answer to your question, yes. Lucozade has less sugar and added artificial sweeteners to comply with the UK Government's legislation to encourage healthier choices

It's played merry hell with diabetics who use Lucozade for hypos and gestational diabetes tests.

[candycane222]

Here's hoping this is progress to getting your health and strength back, so you can enjoy your new life to the full, free of any kind of arse trouble.

[tara66]

OP - all my best wishes - hope you feel better soon.

[FedUpAtHomeTroels]

I had the camera up the arse thing too, take the sedation.
Can't believe he hasn't even called to see how you are. He is the arse that needs the camera shoved up it.

[Smellbellina]

Oh OP that does sound shit. Although your mum sounds pretty awesome.
I know it’s different for everyone but I recently left my ex and honestly now it’s done I feel so fucking relieved! Yours sounds like a grade A twat.
(My DSis had the arse camera recently, she said she was pretty knocked out so it was fine, but she did see the screen and saw much more of herself than she ever wished to! So maybe make sure you don’t look )

[GotGameByThePound]

I think your husband not calling tells you all you need to know.

[KellyMarieTunstall2]

Sending you a virtual hug OP. Thank god you've got your mum right now for support. I wish you a speedy recovery and strength to get rid of that arse husband.

[hellsbellsmelons]

and now I have to lie naked in a room full of people with a camera up my arse
I know it shouldn't OP, but this did make laugh.
Keep your sense of humour and just remember that's it's all for the greater good and hopefully they can get the bottom (excuse the pun) of this!

[Toilenstripes]

Sending good thoughts your way! Stay pissed off long enough to do what you need to do. 💐

[FlopsyDoodle]

On the plus side I’m at my mums house while dh and grandparents are looking after the boys. She’s been making me eggy bread and Lucozade (have they changed it? not as nice as I remember) and I’m in my bed that has my 30 year old My Little Pony sheets on. So that’s nice at least. Dh hasn’t called either me or my mum to find out how I am or when I’ll be back.

[FlopsyDoodle]

I have a working diagnosis of chronic gastritis. I finally got an iron infusion but I need two more as I’m so anaemic and my consultant wants me to have a colonoscopy to see if there’s anything that would cause bleeding. So my marriage has gone to shit and now I have to lie naked in a room full of people with a camera up my arse. I’m thoroughly pissed off.

[Sexnotgender]

Hope you’re recovering OP and they get to the bottom of it.

[hellsbellsmelons]

Oh good grief OP.
I hope you are recovering now.
What a nightmare for you.

[candycane222]

Oh my goodness, how awful for you!

[SingingGoldfinch]

Just read through your thread. So sorry you're going through such a tough time. Hope you're ok and being looked after.

[MrsAJ27]

I am so sorry you are having such a tough time at the moment. Hope you are okay

[gamerout]

Are you ok? What have they said? The stress won’t be helping.

[FlopsyDoodle]

I’ve been in hospital for the last couple of days as I collapsed on Sunday morning. Boys still at home and being looked after by IL’s.

[waytheleaveswork]

How are you doing OP?

I hope you are safe and at your mum's

[PatchworkElmer]

Sod that OP- go to your Mum’s. You can always drop the kids off to spend time with their grandparents and father if needed- he can take the time off work.

[endofthelinefinally]

You can report the passports as stolen/lost and get new ones.
Birth certificates are also easily replaceable.
The important things are financial documents.
I expect he keeps all his payslips, pension and tax information at work too?
I think you have to find what you can and take the DC to your mum's. Then see a solicitor. It sounds as if he has already checked out and is leading a separate life.
I am so sorry.

[DelphiniumBlue]

He's taken your passports and put them where you can't reach them? That's not great.
Are you up to phoning his Mum, and tell her her the flat isn't fit to stay in, and offer to book her into a hotel/Airbnb? Presumably she knows that you've been ill, and that you are looking after 2 small children and so aren't able to do DIY - if not, tell her how poorly you've been. Spell it out. She'll probably suggest that the visit is put off until you are up to hosting.If not, you'll need to tell her that much as you'd like to see them etc you can't host and in fact you are going to your Mums to be looked after.