My ex and I have been slowly getting back together. He was/is the love of my life, the one who got away so to speak so I'm so happy. He tells me he loves me and adores me all the time and that I'm beautiful. However, he hasn't seen me naked in like 10+ years and I've had two kids since. My stomach muscles are split, I've got a giant c section scar, loads of stretch marks and a pair of spaniel ears for boobs. Im so excited to be intimate with him again but at the same time I'm so embarrassed. Even when I suck in my stomach it's still a mess and the second my boobs are out of a bra... Obviously he's aged a decade too but he's still athletic and hot as *. Pointless post really but I'm just so nervous.
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need2namechange32 ·
20/07/2020 16:51
Update! We've seen each other three times in 6 days and have another overnight together this weekend. Nothing can wipe the smile off this face! 
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Peridodo ·
14/07/2020 22:54
Yay!! Go OP!!
Fantastic update, I knew this was meant to be, just had that sense I don't know how.
You both sound like such lovely people who are meant for each other.
I hope everything works out for you both!
need2namechange32 ·
14/07/2020 18:07
So, I know probably no one cares but sod it, I want to tell people!! We met early because we were both excited, 8.30am! Went for a lovely breakfast, had a walk along the canal holding hands with stops for kisses. He did the super cute thing of tucking my hair behind my ear and kissed my nose and forehead. Seriously I felt 20 all over again. Then we went to the park and just chilled on the grass then he came back to mine and he kept reiterating no pressure at all which made me love him more. We dtd... twice. It was magical though I found it a bit sore tbh because he's err large (I'll get use to that I hope) but he was mega gentle. Lots of I love yous were exchanged.
Things like this don't happen to me. Ever. But girls... I think I've got my man back
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need2namechange32 ·
12/07/2020 11:32
Thank you @Weetabixandcrumpets! Tomorrow morning I'm having my first hair appointment since lockdown so that'll give me a huge boost 
Then I plan on a whole shaving/moisturising routine! I can't believe how giddy I feel! I'd hoped to have lost a few pounds but I haven't, never mind. I've bought new undies though! I'm SO excited!
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need2namechange32 ·
12/07/2020 07:59
Nope @Lickmylegs0 I'm useless with exercise. Total crap 
. Tuesday we're meeting up and I'm now counting down in hours. Excited much!!
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