Been seeing someone, whom I now realise saw things more casually than me. We had a few nice dates at the start but I wasn’t sure at first.
Then I decided I liked him only for him to get cold feet...
We had a chat and decided to see how things went, ie keep seeing each other. Nearly a year later we still just seemed to be dating, no real substance although when we’re together it’s very nice. He’s also very helpful round the house etc but he’s never shown an interest in meeting my 3 kids.
So, with COVID/lockdown we’ve not been in physical contact since May, but initially texting, calling every day until 2 weeks ago, and things kind of went quiet.
Something made me want to check OLD, so I reactivated my old tinder account and bam. Brand new profile, recent pics (ones he’d sent me during lockdown!) looking for someone new.
I’m so gutted. Ghosted after nearly a year??
I blocked him on everything. Didn’t see the point on calling him out on it. I’m better off without, aren’t I?
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roubaixtuesday · 23/05/2020 23:00
Ha brilliant 
the hardest part is over now. Well done you. You need to write a book and then come back to MN to let us all know so we can buy it. The pangs will come and go, I have first hand experience. But later down the line you'll thank yourself because you can't get into a good relationship until you leave a bad one 
I just signed him out of my netflix and skygo Cheap bastard.
No, that's a great idea. It should fit in a shoe box no problem. Thanks
Is it large stuff? Able to post? If it's a reasonable size to post I would 100% vote for that. Recorded so you know he got it. That way you don't have to entertain any interactions with him whatsoever, and it's not dramatic . If it's too large to post though we may need to go back to the drawing board.
You will feel crap for a bit but you’ve done the right thing.. Some men can be dicks and often there’s no point trying to work out why they’ve done what they’ve done. It’s often them not you. I wouldn’t even take his stuff to him. If he wants it let him come to you. Gather it up so it’s not a reminder for you, then bung it out of the way somewhere. 
Promise us that if he finds a way to contact you all desperate and confused about what happened, you'll come here first so we can all have a chuckle!
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What kind of pathetic individual can't even have a conversation with someone after that length of time.
Sad little worm!
Not even worth a second of your time.
His behaviour is only a reflection of him, nothing at all to do with you. He's clearly just a massive loser.
You will find someone better
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