Am I right in thinking this is strange

[ceme]

DH claims to have a booked a hotel room for his male friend for tonight (friend travelled over last month, stayed one night couple weeks ago). He went straight from work to meet friend and go out for dinner. Came home just before 1am to drop their leftovers and then left to say he staying at hotel with friend. I think that’s odd. What you guys think?

[Missmadamefluff]

Did you ever find out what happened?

[shithappens123]

Maybe the OP has decided to give their relationship another go. Hope it all works out

[Alfiemoon1]

Hope you are ok op

[WizardOfAus]

Has there been anything more, OP?

[Islandermum]

Hope you're ok OP 💐

[sausagerollsaremydrug]

How are you OP? Has he been in touch? Easy to say behind a screen but I think you made the right choice living wondering what he's up to is good for no one.

[Whattodo20192]

Has he been in contact since the last update OP?

[Lovethetimeyouhave]

Sorry you are going through this

[CuriousMama]

Well done. It definitely sounds weird behaviour.

[Monty27]

[Mrsmummy90]

So sorry op xxx

[FattyPeddledFuriously999]

well done for being strong OP, not easy but when you look back to this in a few years you will be so glad you said enough is enough.

[MyOtherProfile]

Do you have children OP? I'm hoping not and that he isn't also just leaving you to do the childcare.

[NameChangerAmI]

His lack of concern says it all, OP. He sound utterly thoughtless & selfish, and definitely doesn't deserve you.

[Princessfaffalot]

Oh I’m sorry op, that’s so shit

[lavenderandthyme]

What a total bastard. You are well rid. Whatever he's up to, it isn't good.

[shithappens123]

Glad you are ok ceme :)

[Hoodiesallsummer]

Was he going back out with the friend? Where was he going?

[HappyGirl86]

Can't believe he was heading out again! He really doesn't care does he!

[BuildBuildings]

I think something isn't right op. The fact he's going out again also doesn't feel great. I think you should concentrate on on getting yourself sorted financially and practically. Also you need an explanation. It's not fair that he's leaving you guessing like this.

[Namechangeforthiscancershit]

Well done Ceme. I just can't think of a plausible innocent explanation, unfortunately.

[ceme]

Thanks again all. Well, I went to my see my dad to vent to him. DH called at about 1040am to say he was going out (obviously came home when I was not there to get ready to go out again), I tried to be calm but ended up telling him loads of choice words and just let loose on him. Did not give him a chance really to say anything, but he kept asking what had he done wrong, told him to go and not come back. Have not yet heard or seen him since.
Whatever he was doing, it’s not right and if he can’t see anything wrong in his behaviour that’s enough to know that he does not care.
I am alright tho, feeling ok.

[beccarocksbaby]

I'm proud of you OP well done for gathering yourself and making choices. I agreed with @MollyButton

This would be a deal breaker - doesn't matter if he is actually cheating, he fully seems as if he is cheating and he has cheated before.

After that kind of betrayal it's really on him to earn his trust back. Staying in hotels randomly is not doing that.

You're more controlled than me. I would have needed to see who he came out with and what it looked like just to throw it at him later when he lied to my face.

[northernlites]

Leftovers was a red herring to throw you off the scent I think; either that or to check you weren't checking up on him!
Guilty

[Grambler]

Did he at least come back for the leftovers?