Do I become a single parent.

[amsr02]

I've just had my forth child 11 weeks ago. I knew I wanted a big family but my partner didnt so he went for the snip two months ago. Knowing I wanted more children he still went a head with it. We came to an agreement that we would try after the snip but nothing has happened so now Im obviously heart broken that the chance of anymore children with the same father is no longer a option. I feel our relationship is breaking down, not just because of this but other reasons as well its not the best situation to bring the children up in but I always thought I would be with and marry the man I had my children with. I just feel very guilt and feel like I am selfish in some ways and more guilty I would become a single mum

[Elasticwoman]

FGS what's the big rush? You're still hormonal from childbirth. Why are you focussing on future children and not the ones you've got - especially the baby?

Don't feel guilty about feelings. Guilt is for actions.

I was a 4th child and I think I am part of a big family. Hard work for both parents; big financial responsibility too.