Have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and he has lived with me and my 3 kids for a year .
My eldest son is at uni .....my boyfriend has a 5 year old girl who stays with us every other weekend.
My youngest son is 11 yrs old and we are waiting for a referral to see if he has aspergers.
My question is after a year things are still difficult ....my youngest son makes it very known that he doesnt like my partner and hates that his daughter comes to stay . He doesnt want to join in with any family time....for example going to the cinema or swimming . If it was just me and him he would come . Its very awkward and im embarassed by his behaviour .....does it get easier ? I would of hoped by now that he would be used to this and maybe of growed to like him and her.
My daughter who is 16 likes my boyfriend but does find having his daughter here hard ....she is always polite and talks to her but she has expressed to me that compared to them ( siblings ) she has so much and is spoilt by lots of people.
Will any of this improve .....im at my witts end.
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crackalacking · 20/01/2018 09:08
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