My abusive ex has just found out I have a boyfriend and is demanding to meet me to discuss the DCs. He’s objecting to the fact I didn’t tell him, that my bf now spends time with them, wants to know how long it’s been going on, who my bf is, how often he stays, implies I must have cheated on him, that my bf must be a bad influence on DCs. He says I have questions to answer and that if I don’t he will take me to court over contact. He’s now sent me a third email, more pressing - I tried to ignore the first two.
I’m pregnant (he doesn’t know) and he never sees them. He didn’t see them in the summer as he was too busy, then kicked up a fuss when he suddenly requested a date in July for a few weeks later which coincided with a booked trip away with the DCs so he was told it wasn’t possible. His solicitor sent me a letter then about contact but as exh also made threats toward me it died down and I heard nothing more. He lives abroad, visits the country often but doesn’t see them, pays nothing for them. He remarried last year which was the last time they went to visit him. That marriage has now fallen apart. I could go on and on.
I’m really nervous what he could do. Is it best I send an email back to him explaining, so it’s all out in the open, or should I ignore him? He doesn’t know I’m pregnant and that before the baby is born we will be moving with my boyfriend.
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Ex-h demanding to know about bf
AstrantiaMallow · 31/10/2017 13:33
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