Before we met, my DP had a group of friends. Would spend lots of time with them, at their house(they had young kids, so this was easier).
Over the years, we've had kids so have visited less (they very rarely visit us, we're about 45 mins apart). Apart from one incident where they told me I shouldn't be giving my baby formula (I told them this was not up for discussion), there have been no fallings out.
Over the past few years, all contact has been initiated by us. A few years ago we introduced them to other friends of ours (who live near us) who (at least according to Facebook!) they see quite a bit. We last saw them in the summer (we went to them).
We've felt it's all quite one sided for a while, but persevered as they're some of DP's oldest friends. However today we found out accidentally (a passing comment from a mutual acquaintance) that they're about to have another baby. I can't believe that they didn't tell us and it's that final straw to make me realise that they really don't value us as friends.
Am I overreacting to think that they don't actually give a shit about us so we should just move on and stop making contact? I'm pretty sure that we'll never hear from them again if we leave it to them to get in touch.
I'm also feeling guilty as I think that if my DP had not met me, he'd still be matey with them - and that maybe I'm the problem (welcome to my pity party!)
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Itscurtainsforyou · 15/04/2017 18:06
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