I'll try and keep this as short as possible.
I'm currently a SAHM to a 1.5yo and pregnant with our second. Things haven't ever been overly harmonious but now we are fighting all the time and it's a horrible way to be brought up for my child(ren). Nobody is particularly at fault, he could do to get his act together and I could do to chill out a bit.
My question is, if I left him (we own a home together but obviously he pays for it), what would happen? Would it be a council house and benefits? Would I even be entitled to benefits? Would I have to return to work when this baby is 6 weeks? (I used to be a supervisor in a restaurant, but haven't worked since before my first was born). I have no help in terms of childcare so I'd have to pay for nursery for both of them any time I was at work, but with no qualifications and only really hospitality experience that puts a massive limit on jobs I could do as they mostly run later than nurseries are open and putting a 6 week old into childcare goes against every instinct in my body. (I'm absolutely not slating people who do choose to do this, I just always wanted to me a SAHM and I'd hate to lose that time with my second).
I just don't know what to do. I'm at a loss.
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What would happen if I left?
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wheresmybippers · 15/11/2016 13:33
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