I think you need to bear in mind the context that the Rules were written in (the American dating game is very different to here)
Taking them in turn....
Be a “Creature Unlike Any Other"
Being individual isn't a bad thing, is it?
Don't Talk to a Man First (and Don't Ask Him to Dance)
Clearly crap, especially as you are immediately discriinating against shy men
Don't Stare at Men or Talk Too Much
Staring is generally rude, but can be an important part of flirting, no? Talking too much is also rude, but I guess some people read this as women having to be meek, silent and passive?
Don't Meet Him Halfway or Go Dutch on a Date
Remember the context... But also pretty dated
Don't Call Him and Rarely Return His Calls
Hate game playing
Always End Phone Calls First
Ditto
Don't Accept a Saturday Night Date after Wednesday
Fill Up Your Time before the Date
This basically means don't immediately make him the centre of your world, doesn't it? Keep your other friends and interests, rather than give over all your time to him?
How to Act on Dates 1, 2, and 3
How to Act on Dates 4 through Commitment Time
Can't remember what this is about...
Always End the Date First
Don't like game playing
Stop Dating Him if He Doesn't Buy You a Romantic Gift for Your Birthday or Valentine's Day
Unless your birthday or Valentines comes very soon after you start dating, I don't think it's unreasonable to expect a thoughtful gift that is different to what he would get his sister or a female friend?
Don’t See Him More than Once or Twice a Week
As above - don't give up your own interests
No More than Casual Kissing on the First Date
Don't Rush into Sex and Other Rules for Intimacy
Ie don't do something you might regret or feel pressured to do something to try to keep him interested. If he dumps you becuase you won't sleep with him, he's a knob anyway. If he wants to be with you rather than just get in your pants, he will wait.
Don't Tell Him What to Do
Of course. And don't let him tell you what to do either
Let Him Take the Lead
This way you know what his intentions really are, without any danger of him jsut going along with what you say and do without believing it
Don't Expect a Man to Change or Try to Change Him
So many women think that they can change a man: they can't, and they shouldn't try. I wish more people realised this! Similarly, he shouldn't expect you to change or try to make you different.
Don’t Open Up Too Fast
Be Honest but Mysterious
Protect yourself. Don't be too vulnerable.
Accentuate the Positive and Other Rules for Personal Ads
First rule of any advertising is to make the most of the good stuff...
Don’t Live with a Man (or Leave Your Things in His Apartment)
Be clear about what the relationship is. So many MNers on the relationship board who have slipped into living with their DP, who is now being very evasive about marriage or children.
Don't Date a Married Man
Shouldn't need saying, but it does...
Slowly Involve Him in Your Family and Other Rules for Women with Children
Practically a MN commandment!
Practice, Practice, Practice! (or, Getting Good at The Rules)
Changing learnt behaviours takes time
Even if You're Engaged or Married, You Still Need The Rules
Remain your own person, don't give up everything for him
Do The Rules, Even when Your Friends and Parents Think It's Nuts
Of course!
Be Smart and Other Rules for Dating in High School
Take Care of Yourself and Other Rules for Dating in College
It's difficult to navigate the early years while you are still finding yourself.
Next! and Other Rules for Dealing with Rejection
Virtually everyone is dumped at least once - but very few dating books deal with it
Don't Discuss The Rules with Your Therapist
Americanism alert!
Don't Break The Rules
They wouldnt' be Rules otherwise..
Do The Rules and You’ll Live Happily Ever After!
If only it were that easy!
Love Only Those Who Love You
Absolutely critical for self-protection
Be Easy to Live With
...And only live with someone who is also easy to live with. No-one likes high maintenance