There's so much I can't get over, things that are probably innocent but I'm insecure and I can't get certain things out my head. Things like my dh messaging other women before we married, deleting everything but the history was there and one night there was at least 7 different ones. Just friends all apparently. I've never heard or met these friends. Sometimes he used to get in at ridiculous times from work say 5 hours late, his job is unpredictable but this was the middle of the night. Texting his friends and deleting half of the messages? So if he's not talking about me then? .... whrn we were really really happy I find deleted texts to a young girl at work? He claims this is innocent but I saw texts to her just about work then all of a sudden he's messaging her and the conversation is gone! Around the same time I caught him looking at sex sites, we were so happy at the time! Great sex life and just a great life in general. He's ruined it completely I can't stop thinking why? Why am I not enough? And how do I trust him now?
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