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i spilt with my ex 2 years ago and have seen my ex mother in law a few times when she has collected my children (its not often as she lives abroad). my ex sees the children approximately once a month which is down to him and not a set agreement just when he can be bothered i think. The last few times my mother in law has been in the country she has texted me to see the children, i have arranged for her to spend time with them but its starting to piss me off. i am torn and dont know if i should be arranging contact for her or if she should go through her son. i would prefer she arranges through her son but think she is being "mature" (for want of a better word ) for asking me.
My ex ignores texts off me and tells me what hours are convenient for me to call/txt (i text once in a blue moon mainly down to property issues as he isnt interested in the children and i still get told off for txting) where as when he does call/txt me the time rules dont apply to him.
since we split i left the door open for ex MIL to be in touch to speak with the children and she didnt bother so as far as im concerned i have no relationship with her.
i always had a good relationship with my MIL until just before we split where she showed her true colours.
so what should i do??
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chickenfriedrice1 · 09/02/2016 11:04
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