So .. I am internet dating in my 40's after only a couple of serious relationships and always going out with people i already 'knew' (work colleague or neighbour previously). I am also now in London which seems to have different morals/values... as in from what work colleagues have said and a few internet dates have said, sex is ... kind of date 2 or 3 here or they lose interest/don't bother pursuing it. Thats way, way too soon for me. Should I lighten up and move with times or stick to when I feel comfortable? I should add I am not talking months in, but date 2 or 3 feels bit too soon, I wouldnt feel i knew them well enough or be relaxed enought tbh.. maybe 5th or 6th date or thereabouts tho, going off past history).
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