Been with my dp for 19 months. He treats me amazing. He's brilliant with my kids, works hard ect ect. We are both 25.
There is a few problems coming up that I don't know what to do.
- we hardly have sex. And if we do, he sometimes doesn't come. We attempted it this morning and he was pulling faces, asked what's wrong and he said I was hurting him. He couldn't tell me that?!
- he's my best friend. I feel like sometimes we act like best friends rather than partners. He points out women (as do I) who we think would be his "ideal woman". It bloody hurts. I know I'm not his ideal woman. I could discribe his down to her shoes! We were best friends before we got together so I know I'm not his.
- he's not very touchy feely. My ex although an abusive prick, made me feel sexy, just by the way he was with me. Dp doesn't do that.
I don't know what to do. I love him to pieces and he makes me laugh so much. But I'm sick of having no confidence because of this!