How do I hide my posting history / new namechanged posts pls?
My H has been reading my account.
We had a flood in our basement and I had posted for advice.
H had discovered flood and he did some baling work early that morning without waking me (I had passed out having been up with kids during night). Later however he went into depressed mode and started telling me how it was all my fault (too much stuff in basement) and refused to discuss Insurance etc which I felt we needed to do.
I had posted for advice and mentioned that he was watching TV/asleep.
I hadn't meant to be bitchy - just to say that he was 'unavailable' for input.
When anything goes wrong he tends to become very 'helpless' but also becomes very aggressive with me. He is not like this with his family but is to a certain extent with other people but does hold down a job. I suspect he was with his previous wife (who he told me had had 'mental health problems' - he also frequently tells me I am 'mad').
Later that day I had to travel a 60m round trip re a camp that my ds with asd hopes to go on. I left my house keys at home as I didn't need them whilst out (a friend drove me).
Just before bed I realised I couldn't find my keys and needed them to lock front door. I looked and looked. H is up first. The other day ds had locked my keys in my car (down a difficult access way and I have just had leg surgery) so recent history of keys going 'astray' not due to me.
I left a note for H saying: 'have you seen keys' as I had left them at home that lunch time and thought he might have seen them.
He left a note (which ds saw and read) saying:
'Perhaps if you spent less time slagging me off on the internet you wouldn't have lost your keys. When are YOU leaving this house?'
He has been asking me when I am going to leave in periodic temper outbursts for a long time now.
I have suspected before that he reads my posts. Now I know.
I will need to keep posting during the next while but I don't want him to have access to my private thoughts as I don't trust him at all.
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How do I hide posting history, pls? H been reading my account :(
DopeyDawg · 06/07/2015 12:29
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Legal stuff is obviously different. Clear your history, never allow passwords to be saved for any site. Change your password every couple of days. Make sure your passwords are really random. The method I use for this is to close my eyes, look up, open my eyes and select the first thing I see. Currently it is: - LooseCableOnWall. I defy anyone to break my passwords 
and strangely they are quite easy to remember if you forget them. Sit in the same place and look around
I am not hiding anything but if I need legal advice / moral support I would prefer it remain private until / if I choose to share it. I wouldn't want it shared around my workplace / leave it open on a library, why would I want the person who wants me to move out of our family home to see it?
Especially if he leaves notes asking when I am leaving the marital home for the children to see 
Hi OP, there's good advice on here:
www.womensaid.org.uk/page.asp?section=00010001000800010001
Good luck 
Use incognito or private browsing mode on your browser or clear your cookies afterwards so it doesn't keep you logged in if he uses the same computer or devices as you.
No one should be treated the way he's treating you Sounds like life would be much more peaceful and happier without him.
Change your user name.
Ask MNHQ to delete your posts
They did for me in a similar situation.
I'm now divorced 
Speak to MNHQ, you could report your post to contact them? for you, sounds like a horrible time.
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