Dear Ex,
Well, you finally got what you wanted. Despite your tears and begging - I'm sure you will adjust in time and enjoy your space. Enjoy the hours you spend alone in front the computer looking at other women, or watching movies. Or the hours you spend sleeping during the day. The time you are spending on your own now is no different than what you were doing here. So get over it. You always wanted to go to the gym, well now you can. There is no one stopping you and asking you to spend time with them. You are free to do as you wish.
I will not miss feeling lonely within a 'relationship' or the time I spent crying when feeling rejected or ignored. I will not miss the person that I became as a result of being in a relationship with you. Or the fact that I was called a b*tch for trying to reach you.
I heard you say you only begged me to take you back, after I made my first attempt to leave you 4 years ago, because you were raised to not get divorced. Not because you actually wanted me or truly desired to change, despite what you told me.
You are now saying I am your one and only - the only woman you ever want to be with. I'm sure you feel this way now - but let me remind you that you probably also felt this way about your ex, but you eventually got over her too. Oh wait, you didn't. Otherwise you wouldn't have been secretly emailing her within the first year of our marriage. Well, she doesn't have much of a moral compass either and made out with you when she had a boyfriend (who is now her husband), I'm sure she'd do it again. Go crawling back to her and leave me alone.
Dear idiot - I feel it necessary to make it abundantly clear to you that you are NOT the only one that cares about our daughter, just because I had a hard time breastfeeding her and decided to stop after five painful weeks. On the contrary - the fact that I pushed through the physical pain of it for as long as I did shows that I would do anything for her. And by the way - when in labour with our son - I hope you enjoyed the nap you took on the chair, covering your face and ignoring me, just because I decided to have the epidural that you didn't want me to have. I love how you lay in bed for a week like you're dead when you have a common cold (while the rest of the world cracks on with life), but can't understand why I might want/need pain relief during labour
Please don't delude yourself into thinking that you want this family, or that you need regular access to the kids - and how you miss putting them to bed at night. When asked to do their bedtime routine, you would close your eyes and pretend to fall asleep.
Also - enjoy being able to spend and manage your money however you like. You no longer have me to blame for your crapload of debt. I also won't miss being told that I should be doing the budget - but then have you ignore my style of managing money, doing whatever you want anyway, and causing fights over it.
I hate your mother. She's as mental and messed up as you are. As is your dad. I hope one day you smarten up and cut them out of your life or put them in their place. A normal mother doesn't put a photo of your two pregnant cousins on the fridge when we're coming to visit, when she knows you have a pregnancy fettish and would start acting weird. Or doing it again on another occasion after being reminded not to do that and why. It. Is. Twisted.
Enjoy your life. I love that I can go to bed, stressfree and happy - without you laying beside me snoring after we've had a fight, while I continue to feel upset about it.
I don't miss you and I'm glad you're gone.
P.s. I'm so glad I made you have a vasectomy after you fessed up to hanging out with women from a strip club, going dancing with them (which you have never done with me), and hanging out at their apartment afterward (but of course nothing happened ). You can always reverse it if you really want to. Good luck with that, since you were such an infant about getting it done in the first place. It was the LEAST you could do for our relationship, after all I went through to give us our two beautiful children. I'd not recommend reversing it though. You're not a good person, and shouldn't mess up other families.
P.p.s. Yes I knew that you looked at porn before we were married. If you remember correctly - I told you that was a big deal for me and asked if you would stop. You said you would. I had no idea you are a sick, twisted pervert, who has followed pregnant women down the street. You hid that really well. So don't try to tell me that I entered the marriage with the full scoop. You are a liar, and my first love. In hindsight there were other red flags, but thankfully I'm wiser now. I'll never make the same mistake. So really I have to thank you. My next relationship should be ace.