On a regular basis h doesn't answer me when I speak to him or ask a question.
This problem has been going on for years and he knows I hate it. It sometimes leads to an argument.
Recently, he has learnt that he can avoid an argument by telling me that he did in fact answer me It's bullshit of course as my hearing is fine. Is this a low level form of gaslighting?
I have felt depressed recently (on medication) and told him that all the sex abuse stuff in the media has been affecting me and I've been experiencing flashbacks. I explained to him that I feel ignored in general because the CPS didn't take my case to court due to lack of evidence. This has really affected me and I feel angry about it.
He knows how much ignoring me hurts me yet still he does it.
I can't love anybody really and only exist here as it suits me to do so. My emotional life died long ago. I only remain for security. I love my dcs, but they'll grow up and leave. The only thing that keeps me going is my medication. I sometimes dream of killing myself. He doesn't know how low I feel.
I know you'll all tell me to LTB but, truth is, I just can't be bothered.
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Husband not answering me when I speak to him.
nosextoday · 05/02/2014 11:01
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