Four years ago my DH lost his driving license to drink driving, a 2nd offence in 10 yrs. At the time I rightly or wrongly was very ashamed so wrote to my 4 best girlfriends explaining what had happened. I got huge support from 3 of them but one didn't contact me and has not to this day acknowledged any letters, cards or presents to children (we are god parents to her daughter, they are godparents to one of our daughters).
I have no idea what the problem is, her husband was a drinking pal of my DH and I did wonder if there was some discomfort about that ? Together they would get very drunk at a family lunch.
My DH has been sober with AA for over 3 yrs now. Do I continue to persevere with this friendship ? I know I could just call but after such a long time it feels so awkward its been over 4 years now.
To write once again or just let it be ?
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To persevere with this friendship ?
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Cocodale · 17/07/2013 02:08
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