Hi Ladies,
Its been 8 yrs this month that me and my ex husband split, now I have no feelings for him what so ever except for the link with our son that's it, and have moved on totally from what he did. However my ex cheated on me with my then best friend of 20yrs, and im still finding it so hard to stop the utter hatred I have for this disgusting piece of trash, I hate the fact that she still enters my head on a regular basis, that I wish I could rewind back to when I was 11 and erase her :(
I hate her being around my amazing son and I regularly find out she is not nice to him eg by making snidey comments about him ruining her and my ex husbands weekend, and to top it off I have found out that my ex buys her mothers day cards from my son, this is just the tip of the iceberg of a long list of arguments me and my ex have had over her and my son grrrrrrrrrrrrrr
I went to counselling when we split for about 6 months and that helped massively re me and my ex husband.
I do not want her in my head, how have u ladies moved on from this?? or am I destined to have hate in my blood for ever.
moochus thanks for any advice xxx
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Kaismum1 · 11/06/2013 22:42
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