My husband left 5 weeks ago, although we didn't tell the dc until 3 weeks ago as they are used to him not being around because of shift work. Since he told them he visits twice a week and one day at the weekend. On the week day visits he comes for tea, helps put the kids to bed and leaves. On the weekend visit he takes the dc out then brings them home for tea and helps put them to bed. The reason he does this is he doesn't have his own place yet so there is nowhere for them to go visit him.
Its killing me the decision to split was all him he says there is no ow but we all know what that usually means.
He is being over generous with financial help he is paying the mortgage, credit card and loan I am taking over household bills. He is selling our family car to buy 2 cheaper cars of which we will have one each.
It kills another piece of me everytime he visits I still love him. My dc are miserable but he wont believe me as when he is here they are happy because he is here. I just want to see a smile on my dc face. I just want to get through a day without falling apart. I am 3 weeks until my first year degree handin and I can't even face it. Come on wise people of mn help me please.
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2anddone · 03/05/2013 21:13
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