I do think its not a gender/feminism/man-woman issue but just a general etiquette, if you're in a situation with different income levels, think ahead and check that the poorest person can afford the option one?
Seen this a few times in non-dating situations, and for me, it always reflects badly on the organiser.
Someone I knew in sixth form - for 18th SHE wanted a party abroad and then everyone was fretting about getting a few hundred quid for tickets or being left out (we're talking A level students at an average school). We paid for something we didn't want in the first place - all would've been happy with a night down the local dive pub and chipping in for a cake!
Or night out in London - bankers on the same night out as student types. Bankers lead everyone into a situation where they get a long cab journey, extend somewhere REALLY expensive, order bottles for the table, and then all the students are going erm, err, yeah sure I?ve got money no problem .
No-one wants to be that twat who makes a scene when the bill comes, BUT it is bad form when richer members in a social situation are thoughtless and expect everyone to rise to their level. Especially where people don't know each other that well so aren't comfortable with saying they're skint or whatever?
@Ithaka Thanks for your comment, I?m fairly content with myself and my emotions and my dating adventures and choices, and INCREDIBLY certain I wouldn?t fancy you or yours or want to take any lessons from the way you "deal" with life and your relationships
It?s the fucking Internet, we?re all anonymous names on a screen - the point for me is sharing my past and present experiences/feelings as openly and honestly as possible, not creating some perfect image of myself!
I?m fine IRL - even when I'm down - I have no need to create an online persona to prove to random people on the Internet I?m better/happier/more sorted than them.
If YOU have to log on just to be angry at strangers, then maybe you should spend time working on yourself and your Real Life as you are really reeking of projecting your own bitterness from something?
So, we?re pretty much evens in our opinions of each other I'd say I've DEFINITELY seen a social Red Flag for you Oh - this is my last comment to you, as I don't really fancy a tit-for-tat with some random angry. Ta ta.