I am just after a bit of advice really. To cut a long story in my opinion my parents are snobs but in their opinion they just like and appreciate nice things. My mum is from a very wealthy landowning family and was privately educated as were all her brothers and sisters. She then met my dad an ordinary average joe who is mesmerised by her grandeur. He has an ordinary job with an average salary they both still work full time at 68 to fund their lifestyle which includes 5 star carribean holidays and eating in expensive restaurants each weekends. Neither me or my bro went to private school as they didnt have the money much to my dads disgust instead they spent the money on nice things such as expensive shoes and theatre trips and holidays abroad in gites or 5 star resorts so out of school we mixed with the elite!! I loved this life till I was about 15 then just wanted to be normal like my school friends. My parents hate normal.
Anyway on xmas day it all kicked off as my 4 yr old DS got a football kit and football is a thugs game and thet is what my dad brought me up to believe, and if we are to encourage sport it should be polo or rugby as that is what the private school boys play, but he doesnt go to private school. They dont like my DH as he is Mr average but unlike my dad who is or was mr average my hubby is happy being normal but my parents say that likeing football and having a big tv and going to a caravan park on holiday is 'chavvy' not normal and being normal is wrong you need to always strive for more in life.
My dad says they chose to bring me up the way they did so that I would meet and marry a dr or lawyer andm somebody who could give me a nice life not to be with a man who takes me to the pub for a meal and goes to watch football. They literally are embarassed by him. I am different to the rest of them as all the other cousins have married within their class but they all went to public school. My bro is just like my parents as well so it is just me who is normal. But is normal so so wrong???
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Snobs or not!!!!
peppajay · 28/12/2012 10:00
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