My boyfriend of 5 months seems like a rollercoaster of emotions. One minute he's all over me and the next it's like we've just met.
A few weeks ago he was all cool and offish with me and I'd had enough and decided to just cool my own emotions too. I stopped texting him and replied quite breezy when I did text. I kept myself busy and told myself to stop taking it all so seriously.
A week of that and he suddenly changed but I expected it. I told myself not to fall for the sweetness this time as it won't last but I got sucked in. Lovely texts, lots of kisses, darlings, cuteness, missing you's etc and when we were together he was lovely and affectionate. I started falling for it again and at the same time, falling for him again. He stepped it up a notch by asking if I'd go on a big holiday with him to the states. As well as that, suggested that we consider living together when his current house gets sold next year and started saying it was time I met his family etc.
I got all my hopes up, got excited about this america trip, helped him look into hotels, villas, flights etc - he seemed so enthusiastic and now this week - he's changed again
He's stopped texting me good morning texts (something he has done since we met), very rarely puts kisses on the end of his texts and is being all breezy with me. I mentioned the america thing to him last night and he was all "well let's just see what happens, it's ages away isn't it".
I'm sick to death of it. I've spoken to him about it before and he says I'm paranoid and that everyone has of-days, which they do but not to the extent where they totally change their entire persona! I'm sick of having my hopes raised and then dashed week by week, it's not fair.
I know people will say dump the bastard but I love him if he was to finish with me I would be upset but at least I'd know where I was. This rollercoaster of "love you/only just met you" is driving me insane.
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Should I read much into his change of behaviour/texting?
LornaOrder · 16/10/2012 08:36
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