My dp is a good lad. He cooks, does the food shopping, and is a lovely dad to our new baby. He is currently unemployed and when he isnt doing the above hes on his playstation or doing pointless things on his laptop. Since dd was born Ive had days where Ive either been ill or spent the day having a "babymoon" and during these times the house ends up looking a tip, with him just sitting there on his laptop oblivious. He doesnt like doing any washing-up, hoovering or ironing, so just doesnt bother!
Part of me thinks oh well hes a man, he doesnt feel the same way about cleaning and tidying as I do, but the other part of me thinks for Gods sake, why are you just sitting on your arse all day, please tidy up after yourself at least!!!
Whats the general consensus on this, am I wrong to think he should think like me when it comes to the cleanliness of the house? Or should I just accept that if I want things done then I'll have to do them myself!
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Poley · 21/09/2011 09:38
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