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Have you or would you consider going to a lap dancing club..

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Devilscelery · 20/09/2011 22:32

With your dp/dh? Those who have, did you enjoy the experience or hate it? Am I mad to even consider?

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fatlittlepiggy · 21/09/2011 12:07

I'd go....as long as my DP didn't mind coming to male strip clubs with me, and watching naked men grind their bits close to my face.

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AnyFucker · 21/09/2011 13:34

hey, 2ww that girl who "insisted" on doing a dance for you because she was "loving it" ?

you do realise it's very possible if she didn't that she would have lost her "place" at best, and got a kicking at worst, don't you ?

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SybilBeddows · 21/09/2011 13:37

This report on lapdancing in the UK, which was done by London Metropolitan University for Glasgow City Council, explains the way it works financially for the dancers and why they are under pressure to do as many dances as possible and often break the 'no touch' rules.

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richpickings · 21/09/2011 13:53

No I wouldn't go. Lap dancing clubs degrade women and no way would I help to finance that.

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AnyFucker · 21/09/2011 13:58

My husband wouldn't be helping to finance them either...if he did, he knows I would consider it a deal breaker

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ChickensHaveNoEyebrows · 21/09/2011 14:04

Nah. If I want to see a bored woman going through the motions I'll look in a mirror.

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buzzskillington · 21/09/2011 14:04

Grin @ Chickens

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Proudnscary · 21/09/2011 14:10

Ha ha ha ha @ chickens!!

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Sofiaintherye · 21/09/2011 22:53

No, what for?
But on the other hand DH and I went some years ago a couple of times to swinger clubs in Europe. We didn't do anything apart from dancing, drinking and talking to some other couples. We enjoyed the experience, very curious. And light years more classy than the clubbing scene in London (normal clubs I mean). Everyone was easygoing and very respecftul. You can try if you want to experience something different.

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