I feel really horrible, and I need to talk to you all. My mum has today been told that she has an ovarian cyst/tumour, and that it could be cancerous. We are awaiting results of a blood test to see if it is. Either way, she needs to have the affected ovary removed, and possibly the other one too. Obviously she is really gutted and shocked. I am too.
I am surprised by the depth of my upset over this, as we did not get on at all when I lived at home. It is a long story, suffice it to say that I have had two long bouts of counselling, three periods of depression and I still cannot stop looking back. I constantly blame her for my unhappiness, and although we get on now, I have still not forgiven her for all the hurt she caused me as a child and teenager.
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