DH is upstairs on his computer, where's he's been for the last two hours, leaving me to entertain DS. This is a regular - daily - occurrence. We both work full time, but he regularly stays home and does next to nothing - esp in summer as he's an academic. He has two full days out each month for his fun, but sees this as part of our bargaining if I have to be away for work.
If I try to bring up him spending more time with DS to give me more time to do stuff I like - he freaks and becomes quite bullying. He'll get better for a little bit if I really break down, but then slip back into old patterns as he does now.
I find myself getting angry with DS because he's pestering me when I try to do things at home (whether it's my stuff or household stuff like cooking). But I know he's only 3 and wants attention.
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Lolvol · 05/09/2010 12:32
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