My DD just turned 11 a week ago and is "young" for her age in that she still loves building and playing with things, soft toys, doesn't care about clothes and hair etc. She's NT & doing well at school. She's an only child and I always appreciated the fact that she's doesn't seem to be in a hurry to grow up.
However, I'm starting to get concerned about her lack of independence. She hates being home alone, although as a single mum, I've had to pop out for 30min max a few times over the past year.
I hear about children walking home from school & letting themselves in. My dd wouldn't even know how to use the front door key!
She baths herself (after me telling her 3 times to go in the bath) and could do hair herself, but I still help occasionally.
She gets snacks & could make a sandwich, but doesn't use the microwave.
She does not tidy up after herself unless it's a bribe.
She's starting Yr 7 (summer born) which is on a public bus route and I just can't see her managing it, which is fine because I plan to fetch her by moving my lunch break/her going to a friends one day a week.
Just wondering if this is normal and what I can start doing to increase her independence?
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Tealbox · 12/08/2022 23:07
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