My tween is driving me bonkers. He seems he’ll bent on having a gf. In his terms it’s texting back and forth and then they dump eachother after a few days and within minutes he’s on to the next one.
He has a child iPhone with limited gaming and social time, no WhatsApp, YouTube and his phone shuts down to sleep mode at 8pm. He knows i check his texts and he’s been in trouble numerous times about language and phone taken away for awhile.
Tonight I find he’s been texting a new girl and she’s VILE - saying things like “you want to fuck me” and sent him something that looked like a cum face. She also called him a little bitch, gay, wet and all sorts.
What do I do?’ I told him this was totally inappropriate and a low point and he’s not having his phone tomorrow at all.
He’s not mentally mature but physically in full on puberty and walks around with a semi erection most of the time. I’m frankly concerned he’ll have adult experiences before he’s ready if the girls are this forward.
Any advice on how to get though to him?
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Meeeh · 31/05/2019 22:29
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