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11 DD - How often would you insist on showering / bathing?

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dabdab · 12/11/2012 09:41

She is not very sporty / active, and resists like mad!

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SavoyCabbage · 12/11/2012 11:05

I think twice a week is not enough. My two will miss the odd night in winter and will sometimes have a quick shower and sometimes a longer one with hair washing or a bath.

Washing your body every day is a good habit to form.

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AllThreeWays · 12/11/2012 11:03

*reek

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AllThreeWays · 12/11/2012 11:02

Because she may not be smelly now, but she will be very soon. It is good to establish the habit.
I teach yr 7's and my goodness some of them reck.

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dabdab · 12/11/2012 10:50

Every day?! Why? She doesn't seem to smell. What about 2x week? (Sorry to question what everyone is saying, as I did ask for your opinion - I do appreciate it, and it is making me re-think. Just not sure why it would be necessary every day.)

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MotherOfNations · 12/11/2012 10:00

My Ds is 12 and thinks a liberal spraying of lynx is a substitute for a wash. He's getting interested in girls now so not quite as bad. I had to stop buying mouthwash because he used this as a substitute for tooth brushing.

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Durab · 12/11/2012 09:55

Yes, everyday. MotherOfNations, I have threatened to get in the shower with DS1 (11yo) if I think he's not actually washing while he's in there. That's the next challenge - they do need to apply soap to armpits....

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MotherOfNations · 12/11/2012 09:46

Every day. I went through this phase with my Ds. I told him of he didn't shower willingly I would have to wash him like a baby.

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StrawberryMojito · 12/11/2012 09:44

Daily, no question.

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Bonsoir · 12/11/2012 09:43

You just tell them that you won't give them any food unless they wash.

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Bonsoir · 12/11/2012 09:43

Every day.

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