So my little boy has recently started at a prep-school nursery. We moved him there as we have recently moved from another area and didn't want him to move nursery for 1 year to then move to another school, so this minimises number of changes as he will transition to reception in the same school.
My little boy has been in full time nursery since 7 months old and has always been a very happy little boy, who has been what I would call physically quite advanced (early crawling, walking, potty Trg etc), but has always been what I would class as average in terms of academics (can you even call it that at their age, but I'm on about numbers, colours, talking etc- anything not particularly physical). basically I've never had any concerns about his development.
A few months into his time at new nursery they have now informed me that he has been moved into a 'special group' as he is behind the other children. This has obviously made me quite concerned, and I just wanted to get general opinion on what is a normal range (yes I know they are all different at pre-school age).
So basically he is 3yrs 3 months. He can can count to 10 with ease and count differing group sizes of objects. He knows all the main colours ( he does occasionally mix up blue and purple tone dependent), can recognise and select his own name from a group, and can recognise and draw squares, circles and triangles (admittedly the triangle drawing is a bit dodgy). He also speaks in 6 word plus sentences with ease and can conjoin sentences to tell a story. He will also sit still through a whole kids film or play for prolonged periods (30mins plus) with toys he's interested in (prob only about 5-10mins with a toy he's not massively interested in)I always thought was a fairly average learning level for a 3 year old, but the nursery has now got me worried. I did point out he was probably one of the youngest due to recently having turned 3 to which they told me he wasn't the youngest!!
I'm now considering moving him, as I'm not sure I'm happy with the level of academic pressure they're applying at such a young age, or is he in fact actually really behind in learning for his age and should I be more worried about his development?
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What is normal? Should we move him again or should I be concerned that he's behind?
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Jep85 · 25/09/2017 16:27
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