HELP PLEASE

[bonkerz]

Am 13+4 and woke at 4am bleeding heavily bright red blood no clots and no pain,
have been to hospital but feel like i have been fobbed off, got anti biotics and told have urine infection, they did feel my belly and said all is soft which is good but i feel like im sat here waiting for baby to come.

[ChaCha]

So very happy for you

[RTKangaMummy]

DEFFO BRILL Bonkerz

[bonkerz]

bleeding has now stopped and is more of a brown smudge (sorry if tmi)

Thankyou so much everyone for your support yet again, have finally got round to subscribing to mn to say thankyou to this amazing site and all who post here!!

Without everyone yeaterday i would have given up hope.

BTW, have listened in again today to my baby who is doing great!

[KiwiKate]

Just cathing up with the news bonkerz. Great news. Do try and take it easy if you can. Get some rest and pamper yourself if at all possible.

Will keep you in my prayers!

[Copper]

Bonkerz
Sooooooooo pleased for you - been checking all day at work

[RTKangaMummy]

DEFFO BRILL Bonkerz

Yes haemotoma that is what I had

DEFFO need bed rest

Am so pleased for you

[Thomcat]

oh sweet jesus, I held my breath the whole way through this breath, thank the lord you're ok. lots of love to you. TC x

[ninah]

yes do as dq says!
GREAT news B, really pleased to hear it

[dramaqueen72]

oh bonkerz we crossed posts - i'm SO glad baby fred is fine, now go LIE DOWN, eat chocolate and keep rested! by order of due in dec thread!

[dyzzidi]

brilliant news!

now lie down and take it easy.

[dramaqueen72]

oh bonkerz, I'm sorry youre going thro such a scare. i have EVERYTHING crossed for you.

[bonkerz]

thank you all so much and NEMO you are a star.

Have just got home from EPU and scan showed a healthy baby and a (sp) heamatoma, have been told was probably caused by lifting babies (childminder) and that i need bed rest for a few days. No guarentees but apparently the blood loss is good and its now turning very dark brown which is also good.
Baby seems fine and unaffected by all this so am going to get some sleep!
thankyou again everyone.

[Redhelen]

Oh petal - I have every thing crossed for you, and hoping my boss hasn't noticed that my eyes are welling up.

I lost a baby at 10 weeks - but many of my freinds bleed through their pregnancies and had healthy babies.

Take care

[TeriS]

Bonkerz, just read thruogh this, and hope everything is Ok with you. I had exactly the same thing a couple of weeks ago (due to a urine infection), and so far everything is going OK (fingers crossed).

I would definitely push at any time you are worried for the hopsital to do a scan - it just helps to give you some answers. I know some aren't happy to do this though (mine were not!).

Fingers crossed for you, and sending (((hugs))) your way... I'm now 13+4, so we are at the same stage.

[RTKangaMummy]

Thanks nemo for letting us know

Hopefully Bonkerz will be back soon with good news

[edodgy]

Bonkerz I had a heavy bright red bleed whilst pregnant with my dd at 16 weeks i feared the worst but scan showed she was fine, They werent sure what caused the bleed but said it may just have been a graze to my cervix or placenta. Anyway i have a 2.2 year old dd who proves that not all heavy bleeds mean the worst. I hope your result is good.
xxxx

[ninah]

nice one, Nemo
Good luck bonkerz

[Nemo1977]

hi all
just to let you know bonkerz is on her way to epu they just phoned and said to go down now. So fingers crossed everything is ok

[LunarSea]

Oh Bonkerz - really feel for you as I've been there myself so recently. Is there another hospital near you? Can you try EPU there - cry on the phone if you have too - and tell them that you can't get through to your local one (they may not even ask). Or just go to a different A&E?

I think you're not far from me Bonkerz - there are a few local private scan places, if you really can't get any joy from the NHS - Fetal Imaging Centre in Leamington , and MUMS in Knowle (Solihull) . The Leamington one is about £40 for a straightforwards scan IIRC - might be worth it for peace of mind if you can't one any other way.

[RTKangaMummy]

Oh Bonkerz {{{{{{{{{{{{}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

I haemoraged and contracting at 11 weeks was taken to hosp by ambulance this was at nightime and had to wait til morning for scan and both DTs were there and ok

I ended up with huge haematoma but was ok

I had another huge bleed at 20 weeks

Hope you will be ok

sending you power of mumsnet and positive vibes +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

and keeping everything crossed for you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I don't know what epcu is unless it is early preg unit

[bonkerz]

not getting any joy from anyone, cant contact epau for some reason and maternity have taken 2 messages and not phoned back. Rang my community midwife who has said they cant do anyhting till i reach 16 weeks! WTF!!

[Nemo1977]

hope bonkerz doenst mind me positng but she has phoned epu and is waiting for them to get back to her about a scan so fingers crossed for one today

[starrynight]

Good luck Bonkerz. Agree - a scan would put your mind at ease..am surprised they didn't arrange one.

[ninah]

bonkerz, doctor would not give you hope unless he believed signs were v positive
Thinking of you, try and rest.

[dyzzidi]

Bonkerz try to rest, we are all thinking of you.