I think I am having a miscarriage

[mummy2olivia]

After TTC for ages found out I was pregnant 3 weeks ago.

However yesterday when I wiped, there was some red blood on the tissue. Lost a little more, not much, over the next half an hour then it went quite watery. Cramps started a couple of hours after that then it all turned brown.

There was nothing this morning then at about 11, the backache started again and a very watery brown discharge. The cramps are mild and the discharge is faint but defo there.

Feel like shit to be honest and just want someone to hold my hand.

[Leenie]

I'm really pleased for you, you were in my thoughts today whilst i was havin my scan (23 wks +2dys). all is well : ) your right about the 'spotting thread' when i went through the scary time i spent all my time on here lookin for reassurance, good luck x

[Lcy]

mummy2olivia

I am late coming on to this thread. Just wanted to say i had lots of red and brown bleeds in the first 3 months of this pregnancy and although incredibly scary at the time it all turned out ok and I am now 6 1/2 months.

Glad you got to see the little heartbeat and you can now look forward to your 12 week scan.

[Flame]

I normally click these threads but have nothing helpful to add or say so just wander away again (not that I was desperately helpful to you either) - but yours I read and in my heart I was convinced it would all turn out ok

[eenybeeny]

YAY!!! I am so happy for you!!!

[digitalgirl]

so pleased to hear it's good news! now relaaaaaaaaaaax!

[orangehead]

great news glad you ok

[kayzisexpecting]

I am so so pleased for you!!

I hope to see you on the Due Dec thread again when you feel ready!

[mummy2olivia]

Oh flame- thanks for your concern yesterday.

I keep thinking I'm dreaming- the heartbeat was soooooooooo tiny it really was blink and ul miss it. But it was there!!!! And flickering like mad!!!!

[Flame]

[Nappyzone]

fantastic! I am v pleased for you x

[cluttercup]

something (!)

[OracleInaCoracle]

thank you x

[cluttercup]

Good news - now go and relax and do somethong lovely for you!

[mummy2olivia]

By the way Lissie, I have EVERYTHING crossed for you hun xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[mummy2olivia]

Thanks Lissie. xxx

[OracleInaCoracle]

thats great news!

[mummy2olivia]

[TheDuchessOfNorksBride]

Lovely news. Wishing you a boring and uneventful 39 weeks to come!

[Pinkali37]

Yippee am so pleased for you. It's amazing to see them on the monitor and I find so hard to believe it is actually inside me. You can sleep well tonight dreaming of your baby

[mummy2olivia]

Oh and a MAJOR thank you to Everyone!!!

Think we need to keep a 'I spotted whilst pregnant' thread going to advise and comfort those going through it- its soooooo scary but yet everyone seems to have it to some degree. weird.

[Saturn74]

Excellent news!
What a relief for you all.

[mummy2olivia]

Hi everyone.

Managed to get a scan today- had to go private but the clinic was very reputable and the staff were lovely.

And all is fine!!! The bean is TINY but had a little flickering heartbeat and dates are about right- prob a couple of days out. I'm 7 weeks tomorrow and he said it looks like a 6 week embryo so that is ok too. Got a couple of pics and for the first time in ages have breathed a sigh of relief. It does seem as though the bleeds havent affected bean so were prob implantation. It just shocked me that the first couple of splodges were red but it did turn brown pretty quick. Consultant was not concerned at all.

[Pinkali37]

Mummy2olivia - HAve just red the thread and really hope all is fine. Please let us know as soon as you know anything.

I am 12 + 5 today and have been really lucky with symptoms, lack of does not mean it is a weaker pregnancy. It just means the baby and the hormones are efecting you differntly.

[chunkychips]

how are you today, have you managed to get a scan?

[Leenie]

Hi M2O, i know how you are feeling,and it really is a horrible worrying time to go through, in the hope of making you feel a little reassurance, i had to post and let you know that i had brownish bleeding and period like cramps on and off until i was about 12 weeks,the bleeds were always light, only really noticed when i wiped, it used to feel like i was getting a period when i had cramps although they were not severe or heavy cramps,i had 2 epu scans cos of this and all was ok, it did appear to be implantation bleeds, i am now 23 wks and have had no more incidents since then, i,m not telling you to ignore anything by any means, i was told that bright red blood or severe cramps can be danger signs but a brownish discharge type bleed is quite common, but try to stay positive and dont upset yourself .