Hi,
I'm wondering if anyone has any advice about a next to me crib. I am 5 months pregnant and think a next to me crib would be lovely because you are close to baby, can't easily pick them up without getting out of bed and they know you are close. I'm also likely to have a c section so think a next to me would be easier to reach baby. My partner has said his sister is going to buy us a moses basket. When I said that was kind but I would prefer to choose myself and want a next to me crib, he said that they are just lazy and who can't be bothered to get out of bed and walk a few steps to their baby. He also said he thinks they sound dangerous. Has anyone got any advice/experience to share? It's our first baby so I don't.
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Next to me crib? Partner says it's lazy!
Butterflies12 · 19/03/2023 09:04
Moni81 · 19/03/2023 10:50
I'm sleeping in baby room for first couple of months ...with experience to be fair baby gets up a lot, my partner works I will be on maternity leave, so it's only fair to let him rest. I am 16 weeks pregnant and I got wooden gliding crib but that's for my living room, so I dont have to run up and down during day, just keep baby for day naps downstairs. If you buy any sort of crib, get it second hand as baby uses it max up to 6 months, you can buy them cheaply in great condition.
breakfastbagel · 19/03/2023 09:10
That's literally the stupidest thing I've ever heard. It's nothing to do with being lazy, it's because baby will want to be close to you, and after multiple, multiple wake ups, it's much better for everyone to do as little moving around as possible so they can get back to sleep quicker.
Trust me he will be begging you for a next2me when you're waking him up in and out of bed and walking across the room every hour.
Not dangerous in the slightest.
Ridiculous.
Let his sister get you a moses basket, you can use it downstairs.
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