Hi Mandy
Thanks for that! ( I too will be given another heart scan at about 20 weeks, and further ultrasounds.
This is our second baby. I have an an underactive thyroid, which is treated with Thyroxine, and because of that I had extra ultrasounds for this reason with DD1. In a way it is nice to see the baby.
It looks like the extra chromosomes, that led to me having an inconclusive CVS result is due to extra chromosome being confined to the placenta, which makes the placenta less effective, this can lead to a baby being small etc. DD1 was 6lbs 7oz and even though she is 3yrs she is still in some 2 yr clothes. She is amall but perfectly formed, hit all her milestone and a little too bossy for her own good! SO I have a feeling the placenta could have been the same with her.
You mention detachment issues. I tried not to look at the baby's first scan picture at 12 weeks because of the CVS issues, and would hide my maternity notes at the bottom of the bookcase until they were needed.
It is only now, after we had a clear amnio that I can now look at the baby scan pics and bond with the baby. As I am getting bigger too, DD1 is beginning to notice my 'tummy' and wants to 'kiss the baby' which is lovely.
We are looking forward to the arrival in early August and ready for whatever may come our way. I think the whole episode has made us stronger and made me a little more humble in my everyday outlook!
Good Luck for the arrival!